Seeking the purpose of life.

As we reach the seventh day of the New Year, we take the time to re-evaluate our biggest and lowest achievements taken in 2018. But most importantly giving thanks that we are still breathing. Many of us take life for granted, or some still trying to understand the purpose of their life. We all choose how we wish to live and succeed, with the right people behind us it makes it a lot easier. This year I've decided to devote myself to making sure that I stay keeping consistent with projects, studies, travelling and any new activities that I wish to explore. I failed to realise that in order to succeed in most parts you have to stay consistent, although it took me some time to realise. I got there in the end.

Life is not as easy as we all think. I think many of us fail to realise that majority of us are going through the same senarios but having different outcomes. But this all relates to the decisions we make, if you take the right approach to a situation you'd be suprise with the outcome. In the world that we live in, we have to come to terms of understanding in order to survive we have to make life sacrifices.

When  the New Year was approaching many of us were too focused on sharing our New Years resolutions without realising within the second day many of us would have probably given up. Before making others aware of your decisions it's important that you put yourself in the position of ensuring that you're going to stay determined.  As humans we fail to comprehend the type of approach that's needed in order to stay committed, many of us lack the source of communicating when we seek help. Or we are not surrounded by the right set of people to help emgage encouragement.

I can vouch that I did not have the right people around me, I recently came across a quote that stated " Don't just hold onto people because you've known them the longest". This sunk deep and made me envision that I get approached by strangers more when it comes to congratulating me than the people who I choose to call friends.  The word 'friends' has meaning and too many of us are quick to call someone a friend without bringing the package that comes along. If you feel you are distancing from friends and family then let it happen.Sometimes this is an eye opener to understand that we are holding onto dead weight.  We're supposed to feel proud of each others success and take the time to congratulate others, some will envy each other. But do not let this stop you from doing what you're doing. Many of our success happens at differnt timings depending on our commitment and hardwork. Think about who is really out there to support you and willing to do anything to help. Even a text to message to check up on friends, do it. Because life is too short and in this world, it's important  to come together and praise each others success.

Two things I want you to take in today.

Be proud of who you are becoming and Aim for nothing but success.

   With Love

  Aimee x